On a recent hen do, a woman with young children told me "Women should be told not to bother with university and a career. It's all rubbish. What a waste of time going to university"! After having twins she found she needed to reduce her hours at work, but her law firm was unsupportive. She tried changing career but her teaching job was also unsupportive and she had to give up work completely.
This story was repeated amongst other attendees, who's also found balancing work and home difficult with a few exceptions. Whilst I wouldn't agree that going to university was necessarily a waste of time, I have sympathy with the sentiment. Finishing university doesn't mean the hard work is over, it's just beginning.
Listening to Annie Lennox she described many people this morning as 'living in a bubble'. Although I partly agree with her, I also think that many women in the UK live in reality, where poverty is never far from their door, where inequality is a fact of life and where they face everyday challenges to survive. Inequality is present both here and abroad.
Tomorrow is International Women's Day, a day where women are honored throughout the world. The last 100 years of International Women's Day day have seen many changes and developments including gaining the right to vote in the UK, access to university, to prominent political seats including a Prime Minister. This is a chance to celebrate women and the advances and highlight the work yet to be done.
Find out what events are going on near you. Leicester is holding a Public Meeting at the Secular Hall and you're invited, or join in the debate online or with friends and family as step towards positive change.
Meanwhile, my friend from the hen do is considering starting up her own business so she can be in charge of her working hours, pay and looking after the children. Hopefully she got a few words of encouragement from me!